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According to an analysis of thousands of sales calls conducted by Gong Labs, a data services firm, that’s the talk-to-listen ratio of the nation’s top sales performers. In other words, they listen more than they talk. In the study, salespeople who focused less on sales pitches and more on active listening to uncover their clients’ pain points were selling at 120% above their quota.
Here’s another compelling statistic: More than 64 percent of HR professionals believe that active listening is the most critical leadership skill managers can possess, reports a study from the Society for Human Resource Management.
Active listening isn’t just a key skill for salespeople and CEOs: CPAs need to hone their listening skills so that they can fully understand their clients’ concerns and goals, ultimately leading to better client relationships and more effective service delivery. Listening also helps CPAs gather all necessary information to make decisions and identify potential issues that clients might not explicitly state. In addition, listening well is also critical to boosting productivity, reducing mistakes due to miscommunication, spurring problem solving among team members, and more.
So what is active listening? Harvard Business Review defines it as “when you not only hear what someone is saying, but also attune to their thoughts and feelings.”
Here are four strategies to hone your active listening skills:
1. Stop talking. Next time you’re in a conversation, try to talk less and listen more. You don’t have much to gain from the conversation if you’re the one talking all of the time. Avoid the temptation to fill up pauses in the conversation with words. Often, such pauses give the other person more time to think and formulate their responses, which provides a more fruitful exchange.
2. Ask good questions. Show the person you’re conversing with that you care what they have to say by asking questions that reveal your interest. Avoid “yes” or “no” questions, as they tend to limit the conversation. If you’re talking to someone you know a little bit about, prepare for your meeting with some conversation-starters that relate to their hobbies or interests. People like to talk about themselves, and by establishing a friendly rapport at the start of a conversation, they’re likely to open up more. If you’re attempting to converse with a complete stranger at, say, a networking event, come prepared with questions designed to help the two of you find common ground.
3. Pay attention to visual cues. A great deal of communication is unspoken, so observing nonverbal cues can help you understand what the speaker is really thinking. For instance, if the person is crossing their arms or won’t make eye contact, they’re likely not being forthcoming or don’t have an interest in speaking with you. Make sure your own body language is welcoming by maintaining eye contact, nodding your head when appropriate and mirroring the speaker’s facial expressions to show understanding. Avoid fidgeting or staring at your watch or phone.
4. Summarize and validate. Restate the speaker’s key points in your own words without altering the meaning or tone to show that you’ve been paying attention. This may seem awkward at first, but saying something like, “Sounds like you are saying. . .” lets the person know you’ve been paying attention — and allows them to correct you if you’ve misunderstood something they said. It also helps the person feel validated -— which will go a long way to building your relationship.
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